Uggghhh… So we've been working on this for most of the day and it's driving me crazy. I'm trying to setup a site-to-site VPN with my brother. I'm using Tomato, and he's using OpenWRT. I'm trying to be the server since I have faster network speeds. We unsuccessfully followed every OpenVPN tutorial out there. We were able to get router to talk to router for about 5 minutes. Nothing else. No client to client, router to client. Nothing. So we switched to PPTP. We can get everything working the way we want with that if he selects "Use default gateway". The problem there is that all of his internet traffic goes through mine, and he's stuck with terrible speed. If he doesn't check that option we are stuck with only the routers talking? What are we doing wrong? I'm about ready to scream!